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If You Love Her, Don’t Destroy Her

Being with her means you truly love her. Otherwise, why would you waste your time around her? However, we are all humans, and we have changeable emotions so that you may love her, but is that the right way?

If you treat a woman not well enough, you may change your relationship; you may turn a healthy relationship in a bad one.

Anyway, you should love her as she should be loved. You should appreciate her greatness because appreciation keeps your connection healthy and strong. Do you remember the first time you laid eyes on her? Wasn’t she everything that you have ever wanted?

This woman has something that you have never found in any other woman before. Maybe it is her appearance; maybe it is because she is funny and she is wild. There is just something special about her.

Her completeness made you fall for her. Loving her truly should make you keep her as she is pretty, natural, and complete. Although this woman is the one in control of her life, you should know that you as a person are important to her, you have a role.

The way you treat this woman is how she looks herself. Yes, you can make her happy, or you can make her miserable. This woman is like a flower in your hands; she wants and needs to be held with carefulness.

In case you love her, do not destroy her.

So, if you have true feelings for her, you should be careful not to hurt her. Once she was damaged, and she does not need to go through it again. She is not with you to be destroyed again.

Do you know that her decision to be with you means she is brave enough to overcome her fears as well as insecurities? This woman has decided to forget about her bad past and believe in love again. She believes in you. She has faith in you.

Try to be present. Your emotional absence can destroy her. You may sit with her all day long and not actually be present. Respect her, and do not disappoint her. Even though you may think you know her well, you do not. You can hurt her if you believe you know her. She is not a book with an end; she is something that you will get to know each day.

Remember that in case you ignore her and forget her, you will probably break her down and change her forever. You can change her into a person that’s nothing like the girl you fell in love with.

She wants to let you know that your love, patience, understanding, and attitude is what is important. You should never even think of treating her like a broken doll. She is a woman with scars, and you need to accept her like that, but make sure not to make any more wounds.

Do not destroy her. Instead, try to become the man that’s able to embrace her rampant soul, her free spirit, and her wild heart.

You are the person that should help her realize that everything she has gone through in her life was for a reason. Everything bad that has ever happened to her was to teach her how to appreciate the good things in her life, like you.

Try to stimulate her being, her emotions and her thoughts. You will destroy every inch of her in case you only love her when you are feeling lonely, as she does seek your love in each moment, not just when your insecurities and fears strike.

In case you truly love her, then love her with all her insecurities and flaws. She’s actually as imperfect as you are. Also, she does hope to share that imperfection with you. She does want to be utterly herself and undress her soul in front of you.

She does want to be the same way with you that she’s in the mirror—free, wild, and crazy. In case you aren’t ready to accept her as she is, you’ll destroy her.

In case you love her, then build her up, since she’ll do the same for you. What effort you put in, she’ll put in double.

In case you take her to a well, then she will introduce you to the ocean. In case you show her the moon, then she will show you the whole galaxy. In case you truly love her and treat her right, then she will love you more.

Source: gottadotherightthing.com, positivethingsonly.com

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Why The Strongest Women Often Feel So Broken Inside

Being a strong woman usually comes with a price. Being strong in the face of trouble and stress may be exhausting and may result in a mix of emotions including panic and self-doubt.

She hides her insecurities. It’s not to say she is not phenomenally strong – she is. It’s to say that sometimes a woman that projects strength can hide her own issues.

A strong woman can get through anything, including a dysfunctional family fight, ended friendship, or heartbreak.

She is always there to greet you with her vibrant smile no matter how much tension she is going through. You only get to see the sunshine, not the clouds behind it.

Sometimes she does feel like she is living a lie, like others give her more credit than she really deserves.

Others think that her heart is unbreakable, since they see only one side of her. They only see this woman during the day, when she does have enough energy to pretend. However, they do not see her at night, when she is too exhausted to outrun her issues.

She does not let anybody catch her when she is vulnerable.

When she is upset, she makes up an excuse to cancel her plans, so nobody realizes that she is acting off. When she wants to cry, she does push the tears away until she goes to the bathroom. When she goes through a mental breakdown, she does not post a Facebook status or text her friends about that. She chooses to suffer in silence.

She does not want to share her misery. Her friends see her as bubbly, funny, and a problem solver. They often ask her for advice. They often come to her with their problems.

She decides to offer consolation when they complain about their problems instead of screaming that they do not actually know what real problems are.

She does listen and understand. She does want be a good friend.

When other people are around, it isn’t all that difficult to put her issues aside.

However, when she is out of view of them or gets in her car, her issues come crashing down around her.

That’s why she does not like midnight thoughts and long drives alone in her car. She does not want to be stuck in her own mind, as it is a dangerous place.

It is a place where she thinks she is behind in life. She isn’t smart. She isn’t beautiful. She isn’t successful. She will die without chasing all of her dreams.

Although she’s strong, her fears do not leave her alone, making her feel useless, worthless and small.

She does not understand she is strong, as she keeps going. But, she is strong, since she can smile through the pain. She is strong, since she still has hope. She is strong, as she is still alive.

Source: positivethingsonly.com